Questions
What is the dress code?
Host couple will decide appropriate attire for themes parties and make notice of any exceptions in dress code as needed. Cover-ups must be worn while outside of the homes.
Indoor Only Events:
Ladies: dress as risqué and sexy as you desire. Fetish wear, club wear and see through outfits are encouraged.
Gentlemen: slacks or nice jeans, button up collared shirt and nice shoes. Please do NOT wear things such as shorts, old jeans, t-shirts, old tennis shoes, sandals and ball caps unless the theme dictates otherwise.
Outdoor and Indoor Events:
Gentlemen: swimwear, mesh shirts, cargo shorts, classy t-shirts, Hawaiian shirts, sandals, sneakers and anything else that you might wear at a hotel or country club.
Ladies: swimwear, sundress, sandals, heels or risqué club wear.
If you smoke outside, there are may be children and others in the neighborhood, thus we ask that you have coverings and keep discussions at a very low level.
How much does a membership cost?
Membership is $0, however events may vary in suggested donations depending upon the venue or activity. The donations are dedicated to cover the cost of doing these special activities. There are no profits generated from any one event due the fact that Day Players is dedicated to all who desire contribute our socials and materials that help make it fun.
Is the party BYOB, BYOC or BYOT?
Yes, bring your own alcohol, condoms or toys.
What are the age ranges that attend the socials?
Most of our members are in their 30's & 40's. However we have some younger and older. We do not discriminate against anyone and welcome all invited couples and singles that are at least 18 years old to attend.
How many people normally attend the socials?
Between 10-75 people attend our parties depending on the time of year and venue.
What can women and men expect as far as amenities at most events?
Most events provide most of the following:
feminine wipes or hygienic wipes, body splash spray, hair brush, hair spray, hand lotion, chocolate, tampons, light day pads, condoms and lube
It's our first time what should we expect?
Day Players is 100% dedicated to providing a safe, comfortable, no pressure setting to make it easy for adult couples and singles to meet, socialize, play and get to know each other in a relaxed discreet atmosphere. Any members caught breaking these rules of etiquette will be asked to leave by the hosted couple(s).
Am I safe attending your socials?
We make it safe through our screening process and hosting skills. If you find there is someone breaking our rules or if something isn't quite right then please let us know.
Do you allow singles?
Yes, bisexual or straight ladies and straight gentlemen depending on the host couple(s) Find out more by reading through our 'Etiquette' page.
Do we have to play?
Believe it or not, this is the most commonly asked question... of course not! Follow your own comfort level and respect the same of people around you. NO means NO to anyone making any unwanted moves. We will ask anyone who is making others uncomfortable to leave immediately. We'd like to say we have RARELY had to do this in all the parties we have hosted. The secret is who's invited. We pride ourselves on selecting couples and single ladies that we feel will add to the evening.
We have never been to one of your parties before...what's the crowd like?
Literally hand picked from recommendations and referrals. Every one is hot, vibrant, sexy, and easy on the eye and the spirit. We have a very diverse crowd spreading across all kinds of scenes.
Can we invite our sexy friends?
Of course! But remember, Day Players is an exclusive party for select couples and gender balanced singles. Think quality, not quantity. Do NOT show up with your friends in tow... bad form! Your friends can register for an invitation within the Invitation section.
Where is the party located and how do we receive an invitation?
Day Players is held at secluded, private intimate locations in the San Francisco Bay Area. Invitations are only sent to people who have attended or registered Day Players guests. Please visit the Invitation section to learn how to receive an invitation.